You do not owe anyone any justifications for your actions. If you snapped at someone who did not deserve it, simply make a heartfelt apology, once, and move on. You don’t have to apologize over and over again. If you were sincere and meant it the first time, that should suffice.
Your thoughts become your desires; your desires lead to your actions; your actions change your life, and the changes in your life lead to continued changes in your thoughts. It is a never-ending cycle that starts with your thoughts and cycles back to your thoughts. Bohdi Sanders
There is something that we all need to take to heart - you do not need anyone's approval to live your life as you see fit. In addition, you do not owe anyone any justifications concerning how you choose to live your life.
The key to happiness is simply being happy no matter what is happening around you. You have no control over the rain or storms in your life, but you do have control over how you respond to them and whether or not you will decide to be happy...
You are responsible for designing and manifesting your world as you want it to be. You are the artist and your world is your canvas.
People will judge you, gossip about you, and misunderstand you. This is common if you live on this earth; it always has been and probably always will be. Every sage who has ever lived has had to deal with the same issues.
You have to learn to trust your own opinion and your own thoughts, more than those of other people. If you will get quiet and learn to go within, you will find the answers you seek.
This is a question that each of us should consider every now and then. Would you like you, if you met you? If the answer is "no," then you should ask yourself, "Why not?"
Always remember that your present situation is not your final destination. The best is yet to come! The one thing that you can always count on is change. Everything is changing all the time. You never truly know if something will end up being good or bad until some time in the future.
Don't allow the opinions of others to hold you back from what you want to be. When you start living your life your way, a lot of people will not like it. It will upset some people and others will actively try to convince you that you are wrong.