“That is easier said than done.” This is an extremely overused cliché that is mainly used to justify someone being unwilling to put in the effort to accomplish one thing or another. The truth is, saying that is easier said than done, is one of the most meaningless statements ever made...
You must stop expecting people to fit into a certain preconceived mold that you have concerning who and what they should be. Stop expecting the world to meet your expectations
The signpost on the path to inner peace reads – “Not my circus, not my monkeys!” The people that you associate with matter more than you know, especially when it comes to your inner peace. If you are around someone, for even a short period of time, they will affect your energy either positively or negatively.
Don’t spend your time condemning others. You cannot possibly know what is going on in someone else’s life, nor can you know what all he has had to deal with in his past or the context of his actions.
Don’t be too attached to the outcomes of your actions; be at peace with doing the right thing. Even if you do everything perfectly, you can’t control the outcome of your actions. There will always be unexpected twists and turns...
Forgiving the other person does not mean that you have to allow that person back into your life. It simply means that you are refusing to allow what he did to continue to disrupt your inner peace
Focus on making yourself better, not thinking that you are better. Don’t spend your time condemning others. You cannot possibly know what is going on in someone else’s life, nor can you know what all he has had to deal with in his past or the context of his actions.
The thoughts that you dwell on determine your life; what you think, you become. This may sound overly simplified to you, but it is true nonetheless. Your thoughts are much more powerful than
You do not owe anyone any justifications for your actions. If you snapped at someone who did not deserve it, simply make a heartfelt apology, once, and move on. You don’t have to apologize over and over again. If you were sincere and meant it the first time, that should suffice.
You must decide who you want to be and maintain your standards no matter what anyone else thinks, does, or says. Don't allow the actions of other people cause you to lower your principles. Never stop being a good person, because of bad people. Don't give anyone that kind of power over your life.